Apparently another argument is that women would feel pressured to consent and then be horribly traumatized. Which I'm not saying wouldn't happen in some instances, but what about all the instances where the women would consent of their own free will or just refuse without a problem? What I get out of this argument is that men should never initiate anything ever because a woman nearby might feel pressure of some kind. Which I know is oversimplifying a tad, but Jesus. Many, many women are in fact capable of making their own decisions, thanks.